Refinement is part of every indulgence.

True luxury lies in ease. Etiquette isn’t about rules; it’s about creating the kind of space where we can both relax and be fully present.

Whether we meet in my home city or as part of my travels, these expectations ensure that every encounter unfolds with intention, grace, and comfort.

Communication & Booking

Our time together begins long before we meet.
When reaching out, please introduce yourself with warmth and respect, including the details I request in the screening form. Explicit or impolite messages will be ignored.

I respond personally to each inquiry and I appreciate your patience if my schedule is full. Deposits are required to secure time together; cancellations or reschedules within 48 hours forfeit the deposit.

For FMTY arrangements, travel accommodations will apply to the cost. The earlier you reach out, the more easily we can design something unforgettable.

Hygiene & Presentation

Please arrive freshly showered with minty breath and clean hands, I will always do the same. If we’re spending the day or evening together, feel free to freshen up when you arrive; I’ll have everything you might need waiting.

Discretion

What happens between us stays between us.
Please never discuss our time publicly or take photos or recordings. I value privacy, both yours and mine, as part of the elegance of what we share. I accept reviews on TER and EM for the time being.

My discretion extends to every detail of our correspondence and time together. You will never need to worry about your privacy in my care.

Conduct

Respect is the foundation of chemistry.
I adore thoughtful, kind, and confident gentlemen. Aggressive behavior, boundary pushing, or disrespect of any kind will end our date immediately without refund.

If at any point you’re unsure how to proceed, simply ask, communication is an act of care.

Scheduling & Timing

Please arrive on time.
If you’re running behind, a quick text is appreciated. Extra time beyond what’s arranged can often be extended, if my schedule allows, at my standard rate.

If I’m traveling to meet you, punctuality is especially important, as hotel check-ins and flight schedules can create tighter timelines.

Gifts & Gratuities

Never required, always appreciated.
If you choose to bring a token of affection, a gift card, fine chocolates, or a bottle of wine are always lovely gestures.

Those who prefer something more personal may browse my wishlist (linked here) for inspiration, though your kindness and attention are the greatest luxuries of all.